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New
Science of Happiness:
By
Prasad Kaipa, Ph. D.
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Time
magazine put out a special mind-body issue on the new science
of happiness. It is dated January 17, 2005. You might want
to get a copy of it and see the set of articles that they
have put together. They are thought provoking. How you may
ask and here are my reflections.
Some of you might be familiar with the positive psychology
movement that Dr. Martin Seligman has been driving forward
for the past few years. He wrote a book on learned optimism
a while ago and was quoted extensively by Daniel Goleman
in his emotional intelligence books. In some respects, emotional
intelligence has more to do with optimism and hope than
generally presumed but that is another topic. The recent
book of Prof. Seligman is called Authentic Happiness and
it is selling well and reads well. I recommend it because
it focuses on moving from a 'neutral state of being' to
a 'happy state of being' instead of ordinary psychology
that focuses on moving from a negative, ailing state of
the mind to neutral state. You could also checkout authentichappiness.org.
The Time article begins with Seligman meeting a couple of
thinkers at a Mexican resort in 1998 to explore the theme
of happiness on the eve of him becoming the president of
APA (American Psychology Association). ‘What are the
enabling conditions that make the human beings flourish?’
is the question that he inquires into and that attracted
my attention.
The article brings variety of research results from Dr.
Diemer of the University of Illinois, Nobel Laureate Dr.
Kahnemann and Dr. Lykken. The key questions that the articles
asks are:
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What makes us happy?
- How
do we measure our dynamic happiness and other moods?
- Can
we get happier?
I won’t go into details of the answers as I want to
you read the article.
It ends with set of exercises that work. There are other
articles on: ‘laughing therapy’ (that is started
by Madan Kataria and is spreading around the world), 'whether
money makes us happy or not' and 'whether God wants us to
be happy'. Overall, it is a very good issue to read and
reflect.
Now my own thoughts about happiness.
One of the earliest influences on my life was a radio program
that I listened to on Buddha’s compassion and how
he tries to save a bird that his cousin tried to kill with
an arrow. Compassion was the feeling that I got in touch
with very deeply and found myself crying to myself and saying
that I will never hurt anybody. I was 10 years old, I think.
That radio program made me reflect on three things —
One, happiness does not come by what we get but what we
give. It is about empathy and compassion and removing pain
and suffering that brings happiness to us. I also was painfully
aware at that time, how quickly I forgot the influence it
had and how I am hurting or contributing to the suffering
of others — my siblings, parents etc. That awareness
made me feel more determined and pay more attention to what
is going on with me and others.
Two, when I grew up a little older, I realized that Buddhism
is about removal of suffering and reaching Nirvana whereas
Hinduism is about bringing wholeness (purnam) and focusing
on Ananda — or bliss. When I took 10 day Vipassana
meditation in California in 1997 (vipassana.org), it became
clear that my suffering, my emotions and feelings are becoming
part of my body and by bringing awareness to my breath and
sensations, I could really release my suffering in a grounded,
bit-by-bit way. It was like allowing the body awareness
to direct my mind and by removing pain, psychosis and addictions,
I could bring happiness and centeredness to myself.
Three, Hindu philosophy taught me that I have a choice in
the matter to let go of my suffering and recognize that
I am whole and complete and happiness is my birthright!
In Taitriya Upanishad, there is a section called Ananda
Valli — you might call it a dissertation on bliss.
I understood and later experimented with the concept of
kosas or sheaths that cover our true self or inner identity.
The sheaths from gross to subtle are: physical (body), breath
(vital body), manas — there is no equivalent word
in English, you can call it lower mind, buddhi —intellect
or higher mind and Ananda— bliss body. What I understood
from studying it for past 10+ years can be summarized as
follows:
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Body being the grossest of the five sheaths, other
four sheaths influence it much more than body influencing
the others. Note that this is very different from
Buddhist approach... where Body is the interface between
the world, others and the self. It is like the screen
on which the movie projects and has as much control
on the subtler elements as the screen has on the movie.
But beware — without a screen, there is no movie!
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Prana or vital body is what makes the body come alive
(literally). As long as the energy or life force is
moving through the body, various bacterial and viral
organisms do not take over and the moment the vital
force is gone, they destroy the body. There are five
distinct ways in which vital force or prana controls
the body (including throwing up, flatulence, imbalance
and balance in the stomach, breath etc). Another important
aspect of prana is that it controls our emotions.
By breathing differently, we can change our emotions
consciously. For example, when a deep emotion grips
us, we stop breathing or we hyperventilate. When we
are sobbing or experiencing sadness, by changing our
breath pattern, we can gain control over our emotions.
Try it yourself and you can also ask others when they
are in your presence experiencing rage, sadness, anger
or grief. When they do listen to you and alter their
breathing pattern, they begin to shift their state.
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Manas or lower mind is like a taxi dispatcher of a
cab company. Mind attempts to make sense of the input
from all the five senses and directs our attention,
action (motor functions) and either creates confusion
or solidifies intention. So desires, association and
clarity are operated at this level and manifested
at prana and the body level. When the mind is clear,
we begin to gain certain equanimity and when it is
confused, we get overwhelmed by the sensory inputs.
Just like the dispatcher in a taxi company can put
various customers, drivers together and give directions
to various taxi drivers to go to different locations
optimizing business, the manas controls both perceptions
and actions of our senses. In terms of happiness,
the mind is a powerful visualizer and tranquilizer.
So at manas level we create addictions, attachments
and aversions.
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Buddhi or the higher mind is subtler than the manas.
Buddhi is the owner of the taxi company while the
manas is the dispatcher. It sets directions, gives
guidelines for the dispatcher to work with. Buddhi
gives us the ability to discern, discriminate and
make effective decisions and you can call it intelligence.
Once the decisions are made at this level, manas takes
over the execution through prana and the body. If
we are not clear at this level, if we don’t
think systemically and have no vision, then we end
up focusing just on the short term and lose out the
future. In other words - strategy, direction, purpose
and vision are connected to our higher mind. When
we do these exercises just for making our colleagues
happy and not engage our higher mind, passion is never
evoked and commitment to action is out of question.
We might have an intention to follow through (manas
level) but behavior will not change unless buddhi
is engaged. This level is what differentiates one
person from the other. Happiness can be a choice that
one makes at this level and that percolates into how
our manas seeks goals that are connected with happiness.
If we decide at this level that we are not happy,
then lower mind helps us find the evidence that we
are looking for. Buddhi gives us the ability to discriminate
ourselves and our intelligence differentiates others
from us and the identity is formed at this level.
When I compare myself with others, I feel happy or
unhappy and the cycle continues.
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Ananda or bliss body is the subtlest of all the five
sheaths. It is the subtle ego in us. While intelligence
or buddhi helps us to discriminate, we don’t
have to follow that direction. We do listen to our
intelligence when we are unhappy with who we think
we are and are content when we are happy with ourselves.
Discrimination is wonderful in dealing with others
and the world whereas happiness is what shapes our
experiences and ultimately our 'I-sense'. In other
words, happiness creates freedom or bondage of the
human spirit. When we are free, we experience the
oneness, "the flow" (a la Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
) and the interconnectedness with the universe. In
that respect, according to Vedanta, happiness is the
root cause of the universe. Through happiness the
universe is created, sustained and dissolved because
subtly that is what allows us to take action by subverting
our intelligence and manas to go in the direction
of pursuit of happiness.
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In
another part of the same Upanishad, we find a scale
of happiness. The ideal person is defined as young,
strong and virile and that person’s happiness
is the basic unit of happiness. From there, we discuss
celestial beings, gods, kings of gods, teachers of
gods all the way to Brahman. According to that scale,
the ananda of Brahman or a person who has discovered
his/her true self to be none other than Brahman is
10 followed by 19 zeros of units. That is 100 times
the billion times the billion times of the ideal person’s
happiness.
Summarizing,
it is about time we talk about the science of happiness.
It is very different from the absence of unhappiness and
the lowest measure begins at that stage. It is the process
of self discovery that progressively intensifies our happiness
and in that process of appreciation, our psychosis begins
to dissolve and sense of fulfillment begins to increase.
I have found in my own coaching of executives that 'what
you appreciate, appreciates'. I really appreciate the direction
psychology is taking and more power to people like Dr. Seligman
and his colleagues... |